On Duos and Why I Love ‘em
At times in the escorting industry, we get so focused vying for the attention of men that we forget how strong we are together. A sultry month spent on the road with Clara reminded me of the power women wield when we come together.
Two is better than one
After meeting through a mutual client, Klara and I became instant friends, occasional lovers, and partners in crime. We were both in need of an adventure so we packed our best lingerie, our most excessively high heels, all the toys, and set off from Seattle in a van—affectionately dubbed the 'hoe-mobile'— for a month-long tour around the Pacific Northwest.
There were nights spent camping on picturesque forest service roads and nights in five star hotels; campfire dinners, and oysters on rooftop bars; hot springs, and spa days. May was a ragtag mix of passion, luxury, femininity, and exploration.
On the strategy duos
Duos offer us a broader appeal. A voluptuous, black-haired vixen with a penchant for danger attracts a different clientele than a petite dirty-blonde hippie with a bohemian soul.
More often than not though, you gentlemen are willing to take a walk on the wild side to get us both.
One of the many luxuries of touring in two’s is that with two times the incall fees, we can treat our clients to upscale hotels offering an exclusive and intimate tryst. Luxurious incalls are paramount— they boost our self worth and confidence and make us proud to be in this industry. Plus it offers extra plush beds for jumping around naked, marbled bathrooms with incredible optics for photos, and more space to play on our portable strip pole.
While it is true that many gentlemen I meet in this industry have a youthful heart, the thrill of a Ménage à trois seems to bring that sense of adventure and exploration to the fore. It offers clients a chance to hang out with us when we are being our authentic ourselves. To be a fly on the wall in a penthouse suite of two sultry wild women.
The Divine Feminine
For me, duos epitomize the sense of feminine camaraderie that forms the backbone of the sex work industry. Whether it's through Tryst, sites like Tryst, Backpage, OnlyFans, or other independent escort services, women have established standards that make this industry safe, profitable, and mutually beneficial. By commanding respect, we ensure that the next provider will also be respected. By demanding rigorous screening, we set norms that keep other women safe. Even when it feels like we are working alone, we are always working together.
But with duos, it's in the air, and you can feel it. Maybe that's why they turn me on so much; it's the raw, unfettered compassion of the female archetype.
If there's one takeaway from this wild month with Clara, it's that there is nothing more powerful than women coming together as a team. Men understand this well, which is why patriarchal societies have consistently worked to keep women separate. Since the dawn of human civilization, the camaraderie of the divine feminine has kept men in power sleeping with one eye open.
Sex work is a beautiful way for us to reclaim our power and for you gentlemen to join our fight for equality.
Some may say it's ironic, but some of the best feminists I know are clients. They recognize our value and compensate us accordingly. They see something in us that the rest of society either overlooks or fails to recognize as valuable.
This industry thrives not only on women coming together but also on the collaboration between women and men.